tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post115523490016843959..comments2023-09-29T00:44:54.835-07:00Comments on MamaKBear's World: Adoption...MamaKBearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15738734156034934492noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1156157754190542822006-08-21T03:55:00.000-07:002006-08-21T03:55:00.000-07:00Good luck with your mum! I really enjoyed seeing a...Good luck with your mum! <BR/><BR/>I really enjoyed seeing all the new pictures! Thank you for sharing!Katie McKennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11490935986099224590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1155788463713726212006-08-16T21:21:00.000-07:002006-08-16T21:21:00.000-07:00Thanks guys for your opinions and support on this ...Thanks guys for your opinions and support on this situation! It's nice to know I'm not alone with these feelings, and just needing to know, no matter what might happen from finding out the truth.<BR/><BR/>I love you guys!MamaKBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15738734156034934492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1155664155556854892006-08-15T10:49:00.001-07:002006-08-15T10:49:00.001-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Queen Of Cheesehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00411157529359394902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1155664145989666352006-08-15T10:49:00.000-07:002006-08-15T10:49:00.000-07:00Same thing here! My dad went back to California w...Same thing here! My dad went back to California when I was 18 months old, never seen or heard from him since. My Mom won't really tell me much either, I have one picture and it's not really a good one. I tried the internet search thing and came up with about 1000 names so that doesn't help either. It's not that I want to replace anyone or find out if I was better off, etc. it's just that it's still a part of me that's missing. I doubt I'd want to form any kind of bond but I'd like to know if my kids are at risk for certain health conditions, etc.Queen Of Cheesehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00411157529359394902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1155658870094930902006-08-15T09:21:00.000-07:002006-08-15T09:21:00.000-07:00I hope you do get some info from your mom. It's y...I hope you do get some info from your mom. It's your RIGHT to have that info, it's in your blood.<BR/><BR/>Ask her to at least write it down, seal it in an envelope so that it's somewhere other than solely in her head.~ A P R I L ~https://www.blogger.com/profile/11140707805287355091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1155518940313491382006-08-13T18:29:00.000-07:002006-08-13T18:29:00.000-07:00Hi, thanks for the get well wishes...everything is...Hi, thanks for the get well wishes...everything is good here..how are things going this week? :)Monicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07315889411739850060noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1155441571791147682006-08-12T20:59:00.000-07:002006-08-12T20:59:00.000-07:00Your moms reason for not telling you was because s...Your moms reason for not telling you was because she didn't want to hurt your dad, but you have talked to him and he said he understood and she still wont tell you. Maybe she thinks she is protecting you from something so I'm guessing that she isn't going to change her mind if she hasn't told you by now. Have you told her that you are prepared to go to court to have your records opened? Judging from her response to that, you might gain some insight into why she is keeping the information from you. She has to see though, that this isn't something you are just going to forget about. Frustrating, I'm sure.Just Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062762585224798388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1155345749381833942006-08-11T18:22:00.000-07:002006-08-11T18:22:00.000-07:00sweetie - you absolutely have the RIGHT -- but hav...sweetie - you absolutely have the RIGHT -<BR/>- but having the right to do something doesn't mean it will be good for us. <BR/><BR/>I hope the best for you in this endeveaor - just seems if he was a warm loving guy, you might already know it.<BR/>And with all the pain and crud we all put up with I wouldn't go knocking on the door for any more. <BR/>You're a sweetheart and I'll just wish you love..-https://www.blogger.com/profile/16994226369860914648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1155333486187054232006-08-11T14:58:00.000-07:002006-08-11T14:58:00.000-07:00I think you have a right to know honey. I hope yo...I think you have a right to know honey. I hope your Mom comes around and tells you what you need to know. *hugs*Grandma Lolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02886309564803170606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1155317242400227092006-08-11T10:27:00.000-07:002006-08-11T10:27:00.000-07:00Im with you on this one Babe, it is your right to ...Im with you on this one Babe, it is your right to know. She really has no right not telling you now that your an adult.<BR/><BR/>Sorry Honey, she'll come around I hope.Musehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00916482440421622253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1155296754746213902006-08-11T04:45:00.000-07:002006-08-11T04:45:00.000-07:00sometimes....mom's do know better..... mostly, mom...sometimes....<BR/>mom's do know better.<BR/>.... mostly, mom's try never to hurt us or let us get hurt..-https://www.blogger.com/profile/16994226369860914648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1155250385384027532006-08-10T15:53:00.000-07:002006-08-10T15:53:00.000-07:00*Passes second bottle of Tequila*Burrrrrp!*Passes second bottle of Tequila*<BR/><BR/><BR/>Burrrrrp!SignGurlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07637199338513235368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1155247366269269462006-08-10T15:02:00.000-07:002006-08-10T15:02:00.000-07:00I'm sorry. That's a rough one, kiddo. (Yeah, I ca...I'm sorry. That's a rough one, kiddo. (Yeah, I can say that, you're younger than me). <BR/><BR/>Seriously, I'm trying to think that maybe your mother doesn't want to see you hurt. But I so understand what and why you need to do this. My biological father isn't in my life either. I don't want anything to do with him. That's my choice. And yes, it should be yours to make as well. You're welcome to ask me about mine through email and any suggestions I might have to help you persuade your mom I'll be glad to help with.<BR/><BR/>Take care. :)Monicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07315889411739850060noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17797366.post-1155240324747108902006-08-10T13:05:00.000-07:002006-08-10T13:05:00.000-07:00You know, it’s funny about stuff like that. My FI...You know, it’s funny about stuff like that. My FIL was adopted by the guy he called dad when he was little. His mother gave him his biodads name, but he never cared to look for the guy. My MIL was adopted by the guy she calls dad when she was little. She has no need or want to find out biodads name or anything about him. <BR/><BR/>To me I would want to know. I would ask questions and do searches and look until I had all the information I could find, but they don’t care or want to know. So I can’t really look myself. I think about it from the medical history point of it. What if there is something that runs in the family? Diabetes, cancer, high blood pressure? What if it is something rare that you just wouldn’t know about without looking at the family history? Sigh, oh well. It’s not my place to question and look I guess. <BR/><BR/>I’m sorry that your mother doesn’t want or can’t give you the information that you desire. Maybe someday she will give in and give you at least a complete name. ((hug))GERBENhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02287735475277628279noreply@blogger.com