Thursday, April 19, 2007

This has been such a rough month...

Remember when I first posted about the adoption finalization, when I said I had bad news too but that I'd get to that later?

Well, my bad news was that my Granddad had passed away the Monday before the finalization. The funeral was just the day before we went to court for the biggest day of our lives. I've been quietly dealing with my sadness on my own for the most part...of course with hubby's support.

Today it's going to be my turn to be HIS support.

Just about half an hour ago I got a call from my sister-in-law. Then I had to call him on his work phone and tell him that he needed to come home. He made me tell him why...I just had to tell my husband that his Dad had died!!!

Dammit...Other than the adoption and Meghan's birthday, this month is SO totally sucking!

I'm going to go try not to have a nervous breakdown now...

16 comments:

NDFosterMom said...

Hugs to you and your family! You are in my thoughts & prayers!

Chris said...

Oh honey, I'm so sorry about your Grandad and Hubby's Dad. I'll be holding you all close in my heart today. If there is anything I can do, my e-mail is always open sweetie.

The Real Kidd said...

Oh babe. I am so sorry. ((hug)) You and your family have my thoughts and prayers.

super des said...

I'm sorry. It's like a cycle, you become a new family while losing some of your old family.
:(

.. Dallas Meow >^^ said...

I am so sorry. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

a girl said...

I'm sorry sweetie. My condolences to both of you.

Thank God for the small pieces of happiness and the adoption is about the most wonderful piece of happiness that could have happened. I'm glad that you have that miracle to hold onto.

Boo

lecram sinun said...

sorry for your losses.

SignGurl said...

{{{{ Hard Hugs }}}}

Mel Chickk said...

I am so sorry. I was wondering how come you hadn't been online lately. :(

Chuck said...

So sorry to hear about your losses. That has had to be so very hard. I'm over here in Bama thinking 'bout you and those you lost. Just keep that in mind.

Monica said...

My sympathy for your losses. You're right...it's been a sucky month...April is the cruelest month they say.

Hold on to the girls' adoption as a bright spot during this time.

BTExpress said...

My condolences to you and yours. :-(

Burg said...

I hope things look up for you really soon.. Until then, you're in my prayers..

kaliblue said...

AWWWW no Mamak,
I'm so sorry to read this. Hugs, thoughts and prayers to all of you.

Mel Chickk said...

Just checking in. Hope you guys are hanging in there. You're in my prayers.

Brian said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you, your husband, and all of the family.